Was hanging out with some peeps yesterday and raised the question on why people cheat.. lt was very funny almost everyone avoided giving answers and the few I got said lust, or lack of attention or to get back at a partner.
well... some ladies actually believe all men cheat Cus all the guys they've dated cheated on them at a particular time, if that constantly happens to you then you need to go check yourself.
cheating is not a gender ish, So instead of making this a gender war or comparing a man being more of a cheat than a woman, we should seek to understand why people cheat. How would you feel if I told you that your partner cheated on you because you are ugly, overweight, boring, lousy lover who can't get anything right and even though your partner tried to make things work, your old-fashioned, sexually stubborn self never agreed to compromise? Ouch! That sounds pretty harsh. It is a lot easier for a guy to call his ex a bitch, than it is to admit that maybe she cheated on him because he spent more time with his friends, watching sports all night, playing video games, and masturbating to pornography.
sometimes people are quick to point finger at others rather than analyze why the individual cheated. Maybe your own actions had a big role in pushing the other to the brink of temptation.
blaming and labeling others hinders people from looking deeper into the problem and trying to resolve it before it recurs with another mate, I know some will oppose me by saying "why he or she no fit hold body?"
when you're cheated on you tend not to be the bad person, you don't need to change, cus you werent the one who cheated. The result is that the whole process repeats itself without being rectified, which is probably why so many men and women complain about having been cheated on in so many relationships, link I said, check yourself.
so why would Hakeem, Tobi, Anita or ife cheat? lol... The answer is quite simple. People do not cheat because they're pigs, sows, bitches, or dogs.
It all comes down to two reasons , the physical sexual drive and the emotional need "GBAM"
People usually cheat because there is a conflict between their physical and emotional desires. By accepting and understanding these shortcomings instead of ignoring them we can hopefully work harder to make sure that our partners are satisfied enough to resist any instinctual sexual urge.... try absorbing this, to be continued in the second session.
Thanks for reading.
well... some ladies actually believe all men cheat Cus all the guys they've dated cheated on them at a particular time, if that constantly happens to you then you need to go check yourself.
cheating is not a gender ish, So instead of making this a gender war or comparing a man being more of a cheat than a woman, we should seek to understand why people cheat. How would you feel if I told you that your partner cheated on you because you are ugly, overweight, boring, lousy lover who can't get anything right and even though your partner tried to make things work, your old-fashioned, sexually stubborn self never agreed to compromise? Ouch! That sounds pretty harsh. It is a lot easier for a guy to call his ex a bitch, than it is to admit that maybe she cheated on him because he spent more time with his friends, watching sports all night, playing video games, and masturbating to pornography.
sometimes people are quick to point finger at others rather than analyze why the individual cheated. Maybe your own actions had a big role in pushing the other to the brink of temptation.
blaming and labeling others hinders people from looking deeper into the problem and trying to resolve it before it recurs with another mate, I know some will oppose me by saying "why he or she no fit hold body?"
when you're cheated on you tend not to be the bad person, you don't need to change, cus you werent the one who cheated. The result is that the whole process repeats itself without being rectified, which is probably why so many men and women complain about having been cheated on in so many relationships, link I said, check yourself.
so why would Hakeem, Tobi, Anita or ife cheat? lol... The answer is quite simple. People do not cheat because they're pigs, sows, bitches, or dogs.
It all comes down to two reasons , the physical sexual drive and the emotional need "GBAM"
People usually cheat because there is a conflict between their physical and emotional desires. By accepting and understanding these shortcomings instead of ignoring them we can hopefully work harder to make sure that our partners are satisfied enough to resist any instinctual sexual urge.... try absorbing this, to be continued in the second session.
Thanks for reading.
