Being a woman does not automatically make you sexually submissive, (unless that is your thing). There are ways to give him pleasure while being the one to call the shots.
Make it your idea: You cannot rule if the sex session was not your idea in the first place. To show him you are boss, be the one to initiate. Approach him and let him know you are about to rule him in the bedroom.
Blow job: Blow jobs have been inaccurately advertised as a way of getting a woman to be submissive, but this is simply untrue. You hold in your hands (or mouth) the power to give him optimal pleasure and the power to take it back. You can take him to the brink and leave him hanging. Hell, you are even capable of inflicting extreme pain (when you bring your teeth into the equation).
Tease him: This takes patience and focus. Slowly and gently, make your way to his erogenous zones. Kiss his mouth, neck, chest, nipples, all the way down and tongue him as you go. When your reach the part that gives him the highest pleasure, take your time and tease it some more. The longer you postpone the main event, the hotter things will get.
Straddle him: Now, this is where you show off. Straddle him via cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, and other female-dominant positions. Straddle him on the bed or the couch. Straddle him and show him what you are really made of.
Tie him up: No, this move is not just for the SnM lovers. Using a light scarf, just tie both his wrists together over his head and have your sweet, naughty way with him. Knowing he can do nothing about it while you get all the pleasure you want can be extremely hot.
Direct him: If you want him to be an avid participant, then go this route. Know the things that turn you on and ask him to do them. Tell him where/how to touch you, kiss you, lick you, or dick you. Order him purely for your own pleasure, and be assured that he will get a kick out of it too.
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